Does your partner make you feel guilty all the time? put you down? lash out or yell at you? slap, push, hit, or kick you or threatens to do so? use physical force on you. use force or intimidation to make you to have sex when you say NO or possibly won't use protection during sex? force you to do things you are not comfortable doing? use drugs or alcohol and force you to use it also and if you say no are you afraid of what he/she might do to you? harass or stalk you or threaten to hurt him/herself if you break up with him/her? use your cell phone to harass, stalk or track you down? call you things that hurts, such as degrading things alone or in front of others? take your money and/or controls your money? seem possessive or jealous of you and or friends or family? insist you don't go places without him/her? hurt you in any way, then tells you how sorry they are, they may even cry, and promise to never do it again and then it happens all over again? blame everyone else for his/her problems? Do you isolate yourself from your friends and family? constantly apologize to your friends and family for your partner's behavior? often make up excuses for your partner's behavior? find yourself afraid to talk to your partner when you have a problem? find yourself scared to say "no" to your partner?

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